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Wednesday, 22 February 2012

BLOG 14 ... keep ignoring the automatic dating


BLOG 14, 21st Feb.

I've been staying overnight with NC, a Canadian lady I met at the Nairobi guest house; 'Come and stay' she said, so I did. 

This is what happens in Africa; people drop in on each other unannounced, or at least they did before mobile phones.   People expect to be able to stay for the night, be fed and have some good conversation.  I certainly found when living in bush schools that conversation was one thing that was missing in lifeand when  visitors came, it was impossible to stop talking.  People dropped in on us, complete with family, when on their way to the coast, say, or Nairobi; we did the same. 

So when N asked me to stay, I knew it was OK.   She and her husband (who works away for a month, returns for a month) have semi adopted 6 or 7 orphaned African kids.  The oldest is now in his early 20's, the youngest is 4.   They haven't legally adopted them; they obviously are well off enough to give them a home and pay school fees, and  what is more important, to love them. 

Her house is enormous, like most European owned houses in the area around Eldoret, with a huge shamba,  full of trees, flowering shrubs, exotic plants and a large veg and fruit garden.  Servants, of course, but they are part of the family. 

Since the Kenya constitution changed recently, wazungu are allowed to be permanent residents and have Kenyan or dual nationality, and a lot of people like MamaPat at the Dunga orphanage, and NC and several others I have met passing through Mill Hill House are doing just that.   I'm tempted, I must say, but I have family and grandchildren in the UK.   If I was just me, I'd become a Kenya citizen like a shot.   It would certainly be cheaper to live here than in the UK.

After my visit, Danny, the oldest of NC's 'children' took me into town and found me a matatu coming back to Kisumu.   In the past I wouldn't have dreamed of travelling in one, for they had a terrible reputation of being over-loaded and dangerous, but nowadays they take seven passengers, and although fast, are generally OK.    The police stop them several times on the way, to see how many passengers they are carrying, and check insurance and so on.

I got back in time for a late lunch, and then went into town to do a bit of shopping.   I'm hoping Paul has the baskets I asked him to get for me, for I've run out of days.  Tomorrow morning its church for Ash Wednesday; the afternoon its the workshop for a last look, and then the day after I'm on the bus to Nairobi.  Friday I fly home.

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